Being yourself and having your own style is something really hard nowadays, because people really care about being fashion and about what people think of you. For example, a lot of girls wear make up to go to school and this didn’t use to happen before and girls are just over dressed to everywhere.
But, what I think it happens is that they are too influenced by media and seeing all these beautiful women in TV their self-esteem goes law and they try their best to be as pretty as them, so they get really self-conscious.
In the end of the all their personality changes as well, they start to get self-centered and all they think about manicures, false eyelashes and these kind of things.
I think that people just need to wear something comfortable and simple so it could be self-confident. But that doesn’t happen and people take self-image so important that people get hired sometimes because they are prettier even if the work doesn’t involve image.
It’s really sad to see that the way people dress also changes the way people see the others. For example, if you don’t wear expensive or known brands in our school you probably will be seen with other eyes, basically people care more about other people’s image than personality nowadays.
Probably, one of the main reasons for the huge quantity of suicides involves the media and it also involves self-confidence and self-image. The role models for "perfection" are models with really skinny bodies and happy faces what makes us think that we can be happier and live better by being thinner and by wearing lots of make-up, wigs or the clothes they wear, but it's just marketing, because the truth is that most of those girls are not happy living this way.
Living simply and living healthy are the best ways to live happily and to be yourself but also self-confident and I think the most important part of it all is that you just have to care about what you think of yourself, not what other people think of you. I know that there are a lot of people out there that are vain and just care too much about theirappearance but you don't have to be one of them, to feel good about yourself just let the wigs, make-up and nail polishes out for one day and try to take something good out of it. Because, in the end all that really matters is what it comes from the inside.